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Showing Kindness

Third graders explore how everyday kindness, from kind words to helping and including others, makes their classroom and community a warmer place.

Grade 3CASEL: Social Awareness35 minutes1 class periodCASEL SELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

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Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Describe kindness.
  • ✓Name kind acts.
  • ✓Connect kindness to empathy.
  • ✓Plan a kind act.
Essential Question

A small kind act can change someone's whole day, and sometimes keeps on spreading. What does kindness look like, and why does it matter so much?

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Interactive Task
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Explore Kindness

Project this and open each card to explore the many ways to show kindness, from kind words to including others.

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The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

35 minutes, five moves

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1

Hook — A Kind Moment

5 min

Think of a time someone was kind to you. How did it make you feel?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Invite a memory.
  • Name the feeling.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Use — Explore Kindness

12 min

Students explore the many forms of kindness.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Explore Kindness.
  • Open each card.
  • Name the act.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Explore.
  • Read.
  • Say it.
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Modify — Spot the Kindness

13 min

Students find kind acts in stories.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Show a short scenario.
  • Spot the kind act.
  • Explain the effect.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Look.
  • Spot.
  • Explain.
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Create — Kindness Plan

15 min

Students plan a kind act.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Pick someone to help.
  • Plan a kind act.
  • Do it this week.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Pick.
  • Plan.
  • Do.
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Reflect — Kindness Spreads

5 min

Students reflect on the ripple effect.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • What is a kind act you can do?
  • How does kindness spread?
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL 5 Social & Emotional Learning Competencies.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Show empathy, compassion, and concern for others.

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Social Awareness

Recognize the feelings and perspectives of others.

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Relationship Skills

Build positive relationships through kind actions.

CASEL
Self-Awareness

Connect personal values to caring behavior.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Kind-act picture cards.
  • Sentence frame: “A kind thing to do is ___ .”
  • Explore one act at a time.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with kind words.
  • Role-play a kind moment.
  • Add one kind act at a time.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Discuss kindness to people you find difficult.
  • Start a class kindness chain.
  • Link kindness to empathy and fairness.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Projector / board
  • 🖼️Scenario cards
  • 💻Explore Kindness
  • 💛Kindness chain strips
  • ✏️Pencils
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

kindnesscaring about others and showing it in words and actionsempathyunderstanding and sharing how someone else feelscompassioncaring about someone's suffering and wanting to helpincludeto invite someone to join inencourageto give someone support and confidencegenerouswilling to give and share with othersrespecttreating others as having worthripple effecthow one action leads to more of the same
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What does it mean to show kindness?
To care about others and show it through kind words and helpful actions.
QUESTION 2
Name two ways you can be kind at school.
For example, using kind words and including someone who is left out (any two).
QUESTION 3
How can one kind act spread?
It can make someone feel good, and they may pass the kindness on to others.

Create: a kindness plan.

Have students pick someone to help, plan one kind act, and carry it out this week, then reflect on how it felt for both people. A printable kindness worksheet is in the Social-Emotional Learning library.

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Study the key terms

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Check your understanding

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: compassion, empathy, encourage, generous, include, kindness, respect, ripple effect
  1. to invite someone to join in
  2. to give someone support and confidence
  3. treating others as having worth
  4. how one action leads to more of the same
  5. caring about someone's suffering and wanting to help
  6. willing to give and share with others
  7. caring about others and showing it in words and actions
  8. understanding and sharing how someone else feels

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What does it mean to show kindness?
  2. Name two ways you can be kind at school.
  3. How can one kind act spread?
Answer key — Part A: 1) include · 2) encourage · 3) respect · 4) ripple effect · 5) compassion · 6) generous · 7) kindness · 8) empathy
Part B: 1) To care about others and show it through kind words and helpful actions. 2) For example, using kind words and including someone who is left out (any two). 3) It can make someone feel good, and they may pass the kindness on to others.