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Having a Positive Attitude

Third graders learn that a positive attitude is a choice, powered by kind self-talk and by seeing problems in a more helpful way, then check what they know.

Grade 3CASEL: Self-Awareness45 minutes1 class periodCASELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Define a positive attitude.
  • ✓Use kind self-talk.
  • ✓Reframe a problem.
  • ✓Check what you know.
Essential Question

Two students both miss a goal. One says the day is ruined; the other says they will practice and try again. What makes a positive attitude, and why is it a choice?

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Interactive Task
Positive Attitude Check · Interactive

Positive Attitude Check

Project this and answer each question about keeping a positive attitude — read the explanation after each one.

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The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

45 minutes, five moves

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1

Hook — Two Ways to See It

5 min

Two students both miss a goal in a game. One says the day is ruined; the other says they will practice and try again. Same moment, two attitudes. What is the difference?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Share the two reactions.
  • Ask which helps more.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Use — Positive Attitude Check

12 min

Students answer questions about a positive attitude.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to the Positive Attitude Check.
  • Answer each question.
  • Read the why.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Answer.
  • Check.
  • Read it.
3

Modify — Flip the Thought

13 min

Students reframe a negative thought.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Read a discouraging thought.
  • Flip it to a helpful one.
  • Say it out loud.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Read.
  • Flip.
  • Say.
4

Create — My Pep Talk

15 min

Students write positive self-talk.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Think of a hard moment.
  • Write three encouraging things to say.
  • Keep it where you will see it.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Write.
  • Keep.
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Reflect — Choosing Positive

5 min

Students reflect on attitude.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • What is positive self-talk?
  • Why is a positive attitude a choice?
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning across its five core competencies.

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Self-Awareness

Recognize that attitude is a choice you can influence.

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Self-Awareness

Notice your self-talk and how it affects your feelings.

CASEL
Self-Management

Use encouraging self-talk to keep going through challenges.

CASEL
Responsible Decision-Making

Reframe a setback as a chance to learn and improve.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Thought-bubble cards (helpful vs unhelpful).
  • Sentence frame: “Instead of ___ , I can say ___ .”
  • Answer one question at a time.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with sorting kind vs unkind self-talk.
  • Model flipping one thought together.
  • Review one idea at a time.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Reframe three real setbacks in writing.
  • Discuss when optimism should meet honesty.
  • Keep a week-long self-talk journal.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Projector / board
  • 💭Thought-bubble cards
  • 💻Positive Attitude Check
  • 🌞A pep-talk note card
  • ✏️Pencils
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

positive attitudechoosing to look for the good and believe things can improveself-awarenessnoticing your own thoughts, feelings, and attitudeself-talkthe inner voice that comments on what you doreframeto look at a problem in a more helpful wayoptimismthe belief that good things are possibleencourageto give someone, or yourself, hope and supportsetbacka problem that slows you down for a whileeffortthe energy and work you put into something
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What is positive self-talk? Give an example.
The kind, encouraging voice in your head, like saying “This is hard, but I can keep trying.”
QUESTION 2
Why is a positive attitude a choice?
Because you decide how to see a situation; you can look for the good and what you can do, even when it is hard.
QUESTION 3
How can you reframe making a mistake?
See it as a chance to learn, like “Now I know what to fix next time,” instead of proof that you failed.

Create: my pep talk.

Have students think of a hard moment, write three encouraging things to tell themselves, and keep the note where they will see it, so kind self-talk is ready when they need it. A printable positive-attitude worksheet is in the Social-Emotional Learning library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

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Practice · Quiz

Check your understanding

A quick self-check with instant feedback, drawn from this lesson’s key terms.

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: effort, encourage, optimism, positive attitude, reframe, self-awareness, self-talk, setback
  1. to look at a problem in a more helpful way
  2. the belief that good things are possible
  3. a problem that slows you down for a while
  4. the energy and work you put into something
  5. the inner voice that comments on what you do
  6. to give someone, or yourself, hope and support
  7. choosing to look for the good and believe things can improve
  8. noticing your own thoughts, feelings, and attitude

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What is positive self-talk? Give an example.
  2. Why is a positive attitude a choice?
  3. How can you reframe making a mistake?
Answer key — Part A: 1) reframe · 2) optimism · 3) setback · 4) effort · 5) self-talk · 6) encourage · 7) positive attitude · 8) self-awareness
Part B: 1) The kind, encouraging voice in your head, like saying “This is hard, but I can keep trying.” 2) Because you decide how to see a situation; you can look for the good and what you can do, even when it is hard. 3) See it as a chance to learn, like “Now I know what to fix next time,” instead of proof that you failed.