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Respecting Differences

Fourth graders build social awareness by learning to respect and value differences — in backgrounds, abilities, and ideas — understanding that a group is stronger when it welcomes everyone.

Grade 4CASEL: Social Awareness35 minutes1 class periodCASEL SELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Explain respecting differences.
  • ✓Respond to differences with kindness.
  • ✓Value what others bring.
  • ✓Include everyone.
Essential Question

Everyone in your class is a little different — and that’s what makes the world interesting! What does it mean to respect differences, and why does it matter?

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Respecting Differences Check

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The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

35 minutes, five moves

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1

Check-In — Everyone’s Different

5 min

Everyone is a little different — and that makes the world interesting. Why?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Do a check-in.
  • Ask what makes people unique.
  • Be caring.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Check in.
  • Reflect.
  • Get ready.
2

Learn — Respecting Differences

9 min

Students learn.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Respecting Differences Check.
  • Note kindness.
  • Note what others bring.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Answer.
  • Note it.
  • Reflect.
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Practice — Practice

10 min

Students practice.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Name a way people differ.
  • Respond with kindness.
  • Value a difference.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Name one.
  • Be kind.
  • Value it.
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Apply — Apply

6 min

Students apply.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Include someone different.
  • Explain why it helps.
  • Appreciate a strength.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Include them.
  • Explain.
  • Appreciate.
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Reflect — Reflect

5 min

Students close.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Explain respecting differences.
  • Give an example.
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Explain it.
  • Give one.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

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Aligned to the CASEL 5 Social & Emotional Learning Competencies.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Recognize and respect differences among people.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Appreciate diversity.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Show empathy and inclusion.

CASEL
Relationship Skills

Treat others with respect.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Difference picture cards.
  • Sentence frame: “Respect means ___.”
  • Discuss examples.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with “different isn’t wrong.”
  • Use pictures.
  • Focus on kindness.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Explain inclusion.
  • Discuss diverse strengths.
  • Make a respect poster.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Screen / board
  • 🌍Diverse picture cards
  • 💻Respecting Differences Check
  • 🖍️Crayons
  • 📚Diverse books
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

respecttreating others with caredifferencesways people are not the samediversitya variety of peopleuniqueone of a kindincludeto let everyone belongkindnessbeing caring and friendlyperspectivesomeone’s point of viewappreciateto value something
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What does respecting differences mean?
Valuing that people have different backgrounds, abilities, and ideas.
QUESTION 2
How should you respond to someone who does things differently?
Be curious and kind — different isn’t wrong.
QUESTION 3
Why is it good that people are different?
Different people bring different ideas and skills that make a group stronger.

Reflect: value differences.

Have students name one way a classmate is different from them and one thing they appreciate about it. A printable respect sheet is in the SEL library.

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: appreciate, differences, diversity, include, kindness, perspective, respect, unique
  1. someone’s point of view
  2. a variety of people
  3. to let everyone belong
  4. one of a kind
  5. ways people are not the same
  6. treating others with care
  7. to value something
  8. being caring and friendly

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What does respecting differences mean?
  2. How should you respond to someone who does things differently?
  3. Why is it good that people are different?
Answer key — Part A: 1) perspective · 2) diversity · 3) include · 4) unique · 5) differences · 6) respect · 7) appreciate · 8) kindness
Part B: 1) Valuing that people have different backgrounds, abilities, and ideas. 2) Be curious and kind — different isn’t wrong. 3) Different people bring different ideas and skills that make a group stronger.