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Building Self-Esteem

Sixth graders explore self-esteem, the quiet sense that you have worth, and discover habits that build it, from talking to yourself kindly to learning from mistakes instead of dwelling on them.

Grade 6CASEL: Self-Awareness35 minutes1 class periodCASEL SELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

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Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Define self-esteem.
  • ✓Use kind self-talk.
  • ✓Own your strengths.
  • ✓Pick one habit to build it.
Essential Question

Two students get the same grade; one feels capable, the other feels not smart enough. Same result, different self-esteem. What builds a steady sense of your own worth?

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Explore the Habits · Interactive

Explore the Habits

Project this and open each card to explore a healthy habit that builds self-esteem.

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The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

35 minutes, five moves

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1

Hook — How You See Yourself

5 min

Two students get the same grade. One thinks, I worked hard and can do better next time; the other thinks, I am just not smart. Same result, very different self-esteem. What is the difference?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Share the two reactions.
  • Ask which builds worth.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Use — Explore the Habits

12 min

Students explore ways to build self-esteem.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Explore the Habits.
  • Open each card.
  • Note the ideas.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Explore.
  • Read.
  • Note it.
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Modify — Flip the Self-Talk

13 min

Students rewrite harsh self-talk.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Read an unkind thought.
  • Rewrite it kindly and truthfully.
  • Say the new version.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Read.
  • Rewrite.
  • Say.
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Create — My Strengths List

15 min

Students build a strengths list.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • List five things you do well or value.
  • Add one you are proud of.
  • Keep it where you will see it.

🎒 Student Actions

  • List.
  • Add.
  • Keep.
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Reflect — A Steady Sense of Worth

5 min

Students reflect on self-esteem.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • What is self-esteem?
  • Name one healthy habit that builds it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL 5 Social & Emotional Learning Competencies.

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Self-Awareness

Develop an accurate and positive sense of your own worth.

CASEL
Self-Awareness

Identify personal strengths and areas to grow.

CASEL
Self-Management

Use kind self-talk and small goals to build confidence.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Recognize how supportive people strengthen self-esteem.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Habit picture cards.
  • Sentence frame: “One way I build self-esteem is ___ .”
  • Explore one habit at a time.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with kind self-talk.
  • Flip one harsh thought together.
  • Explore one idea before the next.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Keep a week-long strengths journal.
  • Distinguish self-esteem from bragging.
  • Set and track one small goal.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Projector / board
  • 💭Thought-swap cards
  • 💻Explore the Habits
  • ⭐A strengths list template
  • ✏️Pencils
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

self-esteemthe steady sense that you have worthself-awarenessnoticing your own thoughts, feelings, and worthself-talkthe inner voice that comments on what you dostrengthsomething you do well or value about yourselfworththe value you have as a person, just as you aremistakean error you can learn from, not proof of failureconfidencebelief that you can handle a task or challengesupportpeople who treat you well and cheer you on
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

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QUESTION 1
What is self-esteem?
The steady sense that you have worth, just as you are, without having to be better than others.
QUESTION 2
Name one healthy habit that builds self-esteem.
For example, kind self-talk, owning your strengths, learning from mistakes, small goals, or leaning on supportive people.
QUESTION 3
How can you treat a mistake in a way that protects your self-esteem?
See it as information to learn from by asking what you can do next time, instead of proof that something is wrong with you.

Create: my strengths list.

Have students list five things they do well or value, add one they are proud of, and keep the note where they will see it, so their strengths stay in view. A printable self-esteem worksheet is in the Social-Emotional Learning library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: confidence, mistake, self-awareness, self-esteem, self-talk, strength, support, worth
  1. something you do well or value about yourself
  2. the value you have as a person, just as you are
  3. belief that you can handle a task or challenge
  4. people who treat you well and cheer you on
  5. the inner voice that comments on what you do
  6. an error you can learn from, not proof of failure
  7. the steady sense that you have worth
  8. noticing your own thoughts, feelings, and worth

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What is self-esteem?
  2. Name one healthy habit that builds self-esteem.
  3. How can you treat a mistake in a way that protects your self-esteem?
Answer key — Part A: 1) strength · 2) worth · 3) confidence · 4) support · 5) self-talk · 6) mistake · 7) self-esteem · 8) self-awareness
Part B: 1) The steady sense that you have worth, just as you are, without having to be better than others. 2) For example, kind self-talk, owning your strengths, learning from mistakes, small goals, or leaning on supportive people. 3) See it as information to learn from by asking what you can do next time, instead of proof that something is wrong with you.