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Healthy Relationships

Eighth graders build relationship skills by learning what makes relationships healthy — trust, respect, and honest communication — and the warning signs of unhealthy ones, like control or pressure. They check the ideas, then reflect on their own relationships.

Grade 8Healthy Relationships40 minutes1 class periodCASELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Know healthy signs.
  • ✓Spot warning signs.
  • ✓Communicate honestly.
  • ✓Build better ones.
Essential Question

What makes a relationship healthy — and what are the warning signs?

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Interactive Task
Check It · Interactive

Healthy Relationships

Project each one and have students answer about healthy relationships.

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The Lesson · Explicit teaching

40 minutes, five moves

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1

Check-In — Good & Not-So-Good

4 min

What does a good friendship give you that a bad one doesn’t?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Ask the question.
  • Share ideas.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Learn — Healthy Relationships

10 min

Students learn.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Healthy Relationships.
  • Note trust & respect.
  • Note control is a warning sign.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Answer.
  • Note it.
  • Note it.
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Practice — Practice

12 min

Students practice.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Name a healthy sign.
  • Name a warning sign.
  • Practice an honest message.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Name.
  • Name.
  • Practice.
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Apply — Apply

9 min

Students apply.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Reflect on a relationship.
  • Name one healthy trait.
  • Name one to improve.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Reflect.
  • Name.
  • Name.
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Reflect — Reflect

5 min

Students close.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Name a healthy sign.
  • Name a warning sign.
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning across its five core competencies.

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Relationship Skills

Build and maintain healthy relationships.

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Relationship Skills

Communicate honestly and respectfully.

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Social Awareness

Recognize healthy vs unhealthy dynamics.

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Responsible Decision-Making

Set healthy boundaries.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Healthy/warning sign cards.
  • Frame: "a healthy relationship has ___."
  • Use clear examples.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Use healthy signs only.
  • Use examples.
  • Use sentence frames.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Make a healthy-relationship checklist.
  • Practice assertive communication.
  • Discuss boundaries.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Screen / board
  • 💛Sign cards
  • 💻Healthy Relationships
  • 📋Reflection sheet
  • 📓Notebooks
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

healthy relationshipbuilt on trust & respecttrustbelieving in each otherrespectvaluing each othercommunicationsharing honestlyboundarya limit you setcontrolone person dominatingpressurepushing someone to actsupporthelping each other
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
Name a sign of a healthy relationship.
Trust, respect, and honest communication.
QUESTION 2
Name a warning sign.
One person controlling or pressuring the other.
QUESTION 3
How are disagreements handled in a healthy relationship?
By talking it out with respect.

Reflect: healthy relationships.

Have students reflect on a relationship’s healthy traits and one to improve. A printable reflection sheet is in the SEL library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

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Practice · Quiz

Check your understanding

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Name: ________________________
Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: boundary, communication, control, healthy relationship, pressure, respect, support, trust
  1. one person dominating
  2. pushing someone to act
  3. a limit you set
  4. sharing honestly
  5. helping each other
  6. built on trust & respect
  7. valuing each other
  8. believing in each other

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. Name a sign of a healthy relationship.
  2. Name a warning sign.
  3. How are disagreements handled in a healthy relationship?
Answer key — Part A: 1) control · 2) pressure · 3) boundary · 4) communication · 5) support · 6) healthy relationship · 7) respect · 8) trust
Part B: 1) Trust, respect, and honest communication. 2) One person controlling or pressuring the other. 3) By talking it out with respect.