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Emotional Regulation

Ninth graders build self-management by learning to regulate emotions — noticing a feeling, pausing before reacting, breathing, and choosing a healthy response instead of acting on impulse. They order the steps, then plan how to handle a strong emotion.

Grade 9Emotional Regulation45 minutes1 class periodCASELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Notice & pause.
  • ✓Use a reset.
  • ✓Choose a healthy response.
  • ✓Reflect & adjust.
Essential Question

How do you stay in control when a strong emotion hits?

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Interactive Task
Put in Order · Interactive

Order the Regulation Steps

Project this and have students put the emotional-regulation steps in order.

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Tap the first step when a strong emotion hits!
The Lesson · Explicit teaching

45 minutes, five moves

Tap any phase to open the teacher moves and student actions.

1

Check-In — In the Moment

4 min

When you’re angry, what’s the gap between feeling it and reacting?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Reflect quietly.
  • Share if you like.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Reflect.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Learn — Regulation

11 min

Students learn.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Order the Regulation Steps.
  • Order them.
  • Note pause before reacting.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Order.
  • Say.
  • Note it.
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Practice — Practice

14 min

Students practice.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Name a feeling.
  • Try a breathing reset.
  • Name a healthy response.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Name.
  • Breathe.
  • Choose.
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Apply — Apply

11 min

Students apply.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Pick a real trigger.
  • Plan your response.
  • Name a reset you’ll use.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Pick.
  • Plan.
  • Name.
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Reflect — Reflect

5 min

Students close.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • What’s the first step?
  • Why pause before reacting?
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning across its five core competencies.

CASEL
Self-Management

Regulate emotions and impulses.

CASEL
Self-Management

Use healthy coping strategies.

CASEL
Self-Awareness

Notice emotions as they rise.

CASEL
Responsible Decision-Making

Pause and choose a response.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Step cards.
  • Frame: "first I notice, then ___."
  • Practice breathing.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Use 3 core steps.
  • Practice one reset.
  • Use a visual cue.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Build a coping toolkit.
  • Map triggers to responses.
  • Teach a peer the steps.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Screen / board
  • 🌬️Step cards
  • 💻Order the Regulation Steps
  • 🧰Coping-plan sheet
  • 📓Notebooks
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

regulationmanaging emotionspausestop before reactingreseta quick calming actionimpulsea sudden urgeresponsea chosen actioncopinghandling feelings welltriggerwhat sets off a feelingreflectreview how it went
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What’s the first emotional-regulation step?
Notice and name what you’re feeling.
QUESTION 2
Why pause before reacting?
It gives you time to choose, not just react.
QUESTION 3
Name a healthy reset.
A few slow breaths, or a short break.

Reflect: emotional regulation.

Have students plan how they’ll handle a real trigger. A printable coping-plan sheet is in the SEL library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

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Practice · Quiz

Check your understanding

A quick self-check with instant feedback, drawn from this lesson’s key terms.

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: coping, impulse, pause, reflect, regulation, reset, response, trigger
  1. stop before reacting
  2. a sudden urge
  3. managing emotions
  4. what sets off a feeling
  5. a quick calming action
  6. review how it went
  7. handling feelings well
  8. a chosen action

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What’s the first emotional-regulation step?
  2. Why pause before reacting?
  3. Name a healthy reset.
Answer key — Part A: 1) pause · 2) impulse · 3) regulation · 4) trigger · 5) reset · 6) reflect · 7) coping · 8) response
Part B: 1) Notice and name what you’re feeling. 2) It gives you time to choose, not just react. 3) A few slow breaths, or a short break.