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Including Others

Ninth graders learn to notice the small actions that pull people in or push them out, and sort real examples into including and excluding so inclusion becomes a choice they can see.

Grade 9CASEL: Social Awareness40 minutes1 class periodCASELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Spot including actions.
  • ✓Spot excluding actions.
  • ✓Value belonging.
  • ✓Sort each example.
Essential Question

Belonging is built from small moments. What are the everyday actions that pull people in, and the ones that quietly leave them out?

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Interactive Task
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Sort the Actions

Project this and sort each action into including or excluding — tap an action, then tap where it belongs.

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🤝 Including
🚫 Excluding
Tap an action, then tap whether it brings people in or leaves them out.
The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

40 minutes, five moves

Tap any phase to open the teacher moves and student actions.

1

Hook — Left Out

5 min

Think of a time you felt on the outside of a group. What small thing could someone have done to change that?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Ask about being left out.
  • Name the feeling.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Think.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Use — Sort the Actions

12 min

Students sort including and excluding actions.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Sort the Actions.
  • Drop each action.
  • Explain each choice.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Sort.
  • Say.
  • Explain.
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Modify — Flip It Open

13 min

Students turn an excluding action into an including one.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Pick an excluding action.
  • Name an including version.
  • Explain the change.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Pick.
  • Name.
  • Explain.
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Create — Inclusion Move

15 min

Students plan one real inclusion move.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Spot a place people get left out.
  • Plan one including action.
  • Decide when to use it.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Spot.
  • Plan.
  • Decide.
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Reflect — Who's Not Here?

5 min

Students reflect on belonging.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Why does inclusion matter?
  • What is one small including move?
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning across its five core competencies.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Recognize situations where others are included or excluded.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Show concern for the feelings of others.

CASEL
Relationship Skills

Build positive relationships across groups.

CASEL
Responsible Decision-Making

Act to make settings fair and welcoming.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Action cards with icons.
  • Sentence frame: “___ includes / excludes people.”
  • Sort two actions at a time.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with clear including actions.
  • Discuss one example together.
  • Sort including fully before the rest.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Discuss subtle or accidental exclusion.
  • Plan an upstander response.
  • Examine inclusion in online spaces.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Projector / board
  • 🖼️Action-example cards
  • 💻Sort the Actions
  • 🎭Role-play prompts
  • ✏️Pencils
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

inclusionmaking sure everyone feels welcome and part of the groupexclusionleaving someone out of a group or activitybelongingthe feeling of being accepted and valuedsocial awarenessnoticing and caring about what others experienceempathyunderstanding and sharing what another person feelsbystandersomeone who notices exclusion but does not actupstandersomeone who steps in to include or support othersfairnesstreating people justly and giving everyone a place
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
Name one action that includes others.
For example, inviting someone sitting alone to join, or asking a quiet person for their idea.
QUESTION 2
Name one action that excludes others.
For example, leaving someone off the group chat on purpose or making inside jokes that shut people out.
QUESTION 3
Why does including others matter?
It gives people a sense of belonging, and small welcoming actions can change how safe someone feels.

Create: an inclusion move.

Have students spot a place where people tend to get left out, plan one small including action, and decide when they will use it this week. A printable inclusion worksheet is in the Social-Emotional Learning library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

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Practice · Quiz

Check your understanding

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: belonging, bystander, empathy, exclusion, fairness, inclusion, social awareness, upstander
  1. noticing and caring about what others experience
  2. understanding and sharing what another person feels
  3. someone who steps in to include or support others
  4. treating people justly and giving everyone a place
  5. the feeling of being accepted and valued
  6. someone who notices exclusion but does not act
  7. making sure everyone feels welcome and part of the group
  8. leaving someone out of a group or activity

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. Name one action that includes others.
  2. Name one action that excludes others.
  3. Why does including others matter?
Answer key — Part A: 1) social awareness · 2) empathy · 3) upstander · 4) fairness · 5) belonging · 6) bystander · 7) inclusion · 8) exclusion
Part B: 1) For example, inviting someone sitting alone to join, or asking a quiet person for their idea. 2) For example, leaving someone off the group chat on purpose or making inside jokes that shut people out. 3) It gives people a sense of belonging, and small welcoming actions can change how safe someone feels.