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Perspective-Taking

Ninth graders build social awareness through perspective-taking — trying to see a situation from another person’s point of view by asking questions and listening. It builds understanding and defuses conflict, without requiring agreement. They check the ideas, then practice.

Grade 9Perspective-Taking45 minutes1 class periodCASELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Define perspective-taking.
  • ✓Ask & listen.
  • ✓Understand others.
  • ✓Ease conflict.
Essential Question

How do you understand a view that isn’t your own?

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Interactive Task
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Perspective-Taking

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The Lesson · Explicit teaching

45 minutes, five moves

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1

Check-In — Two Views

4 min

Think of a disagreement — how did the OTHER person likely see it?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Reflect quietly.
  • Share if you like.
  • Set the goal.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Reflect.
  • Share.
  • Get ready.
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Learn — Perspective-Taking

11 min

Students learn.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send students to Perspective-Taking.
  • Note ask & listen.
  • Note it isn’t agreeing.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Answer.
  • Note it.
  • Note it.
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Practice — Practice

14 min

Students practice.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Pick a disagreement.
  • State the other view fairly.
  • Ask one question.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Pick.
  • State.
  • Ask.
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Apply — Apply

11 min

Students apply.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Role-play both sides.
  • Find common ground.
  • Name what you learned.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Role-play.
  • Find.
  • Name.
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Reflect — Reflect

5 min

Students close.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • What is perspective-taking?
  • How do you do it?
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Say it.
  • Say it.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL Framework for Social and Emotional Learning across its five core competencies.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Take the perspective of others.

CASEL
Social Awareness

Show empathy and understanding.

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Relationship Skills

Use perspective to resolve conflict.

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Responsible Decision-Making

Consider others in decisions.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Two-view scenario cards.
  • Frame: "they might feel ___."
  • Role-play both sides.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Use one scenario.
  • State one other view.
  • Use sentence frames.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Debate from the other side.
  • Mediate a disagreement.
  • Analyze a news issue.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Screen / board
  • 👀Scenario cards
  • 💻Perspective-Taking
  • 📋Two-view sheet
  • 📓Notebooks
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

perspectivea point of viewperspective-takingseeing another’s viewempathyunderstanding feelingsassumptiona guess without askingcommon groundwhat both can agree onlistenpay full attentionunderstandtruly grasp a viewconflicta disagreement
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What is perspective-taking?
Trying to see a situation from another’s point of view.
QUESTION 2
How do you take someone’s perspective?
Ask questions and really listen.
QUESTION 3
Does it mean agreeing?
No — it means understanding their view.

Reflect: perspective-taking.

Have students state a disagreement fairly from the other side. A printable two-view sheet is in the SEL library.

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Practice · Quiz

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: assumption, common ground, conflict, empathy, listen, perspective, perspective-taking, understand
  1. seeing another’s view
  2. a guess without asking
  3. pay full attention
  4. a disagreement
  5. a point of view
  6. understanding feelings
  7. what both can agree on
  8. truly grasp a view

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What is perspective-taking?
  2. How do you take someone’s perspective?
  3. Does it mean agreeing?
Answer key — Part A: 1) perspective-taking · 2) assumption · 3) listen · 4) conflict · 5) perspective · 6) empathy · 7) common ground · 8) understand
Part B: 1) Trying to see a situation from another’s point of view. 2) Ask questions and really listen. 3) No — it means understanding their view.